many problems that arise when we must give voice to speak,
problems that arise are likely gerogi, fear a mistake, or fear of other people are not comfortable with the subject that you palm it ....
actually easy to solve this problem ..
as long as we trust and believe everything will be fine, would be fine ..
believe in the power of belief ..
here I want to give tips to speak: Many people are good at thinking, good at saying, and experts in attitude. Not infrequently it is often invite click amazed to society. It's just that, a lot of people that are difficult to communicate in the future. Here are simple tips to make a person able to speak well in public.
1. Do not speak the mind, let your heart speak.
That is, do not dwell on the subject that was delivered and referral arranged. Speaking with the heart is much more comfortable and convenient than have to speak with full concentration and attention to style. People are more comfortable to hear the conversation when the speaker spoke in conditions of freedom and not forced.
2. Master the audience's gaze.
When talking, do not look only to one point. Let your eyes roam everywhere to know the intensity of audience interest. If you capture the signals from the audience's laziness, you can emphasize your views on him. Better still if your body language so that at least he is leads him feel cared for.
3. Use a dynamic voice intonation
The sound is flat and not rhythmic makes the audience become bored and want to sleep. High voice and create deafening auditory nerve audience to be disturbed. Dinamiskan voice and control your sound at the point you comfortable when speaking. Intonation is imposed will make you uncomfortable in talking.
4. Body language helps your audience the purpose of discussion audiences catch
There was no denying that when heard, people far more use of his eyes than the ears. Do not believe? Try to read a book while listening to music. memorized the lyrics to music, reading a book with a loud voice. Can? Can not be guaranteed. But try memorized the contents of the book while listening to music. It must be so much easier .. That is, what really captured the audience in a conversation is actually what they see, only what they hear. Therefore improve your body language.
5. Expand knowledge
If most people think that to be the MC (Master of Ceremony), one need only pandas speaking, most people are wrong. For the MC, or in this case the speaker, someone needs to package the conversation to become more attractive. Although it talks about a very boring hal2 such as physics, etc.. Most people are interested to speak on matters they feel attractive and pleasing as gossip, crime stories, etc.. That is, a good speaker should have an extensive knowledge for the conversation sounded interesting. Hence, expand the horizons first before speaking. A few interesting tips to be able to speak well in public.
most important in living a relationship with someone is to not blame our spouse. More importantly, always trying to improve and not repeat the same mistakes. Remember, remember someone will not change if we ourselves who started it the first thing we need to consider ...
1. Starting A Relationship.
Determine standards to be achieved in your relationship. Begin taking systematic steps in that direction. If you want a life partner a loyal, honest, open and reliable. You also must show the same attitude. Think about the people who have these qualities and start
2. Need Good Relationship Processes that are not instant.
fall in love at first sight would often occur at the sight of a person (usually physically attractive interest you). You must feel the existence of an urge to know her further. But, if suitable, that there is a relationship in a short time instant and an end. Physical attraction is important, but interest in the personality of each is more important. Can be very strong emotional bond. To understand the personality of someone having to go through the process quite a long time and do not rush, get to know your partner before either outside or inside. Starting a relationship through friendship, usually last long.
3. 50-50.
Two become one, the core of a relationship. How much can you give to your partner, and vice versa. When in love, it seems you would give anything and do anything for him. Over time, if one party is too much to give and the other parties just to accept it, there will be an imbalance and could be the beginning goyahnya a relationship. receive and give a balanced way will bear the sense of interdependence and respect your partner. Show that you need a presence, but at the same time that you are an independent.
4. understand your partner because everyone wants to be understood.
You are not him and he is not you. So stop to ask him to be someone that you want. Stop him do something you want. Thank him what it is. Enjoy the equation that you have as often as possible and do not ributkan small differences is the culprit rift in your relationship. Give him the freedom to do what he likes. Try to get involved in every aspect of life even if you do not like it. He will realize and appreciate the effort you are.
5. Trust and Open Communication.
Jealousy, may be even could be spices, but if too much, do not expect. If too much envied, your partner will feel that he is not trusted by you. Despite your allegations are not true, maybe just because of your excessive jealousy, she became upset and did so because already not trusted by you. Talk openly and calmly every problem you face. Make her feel appreciated by the belief that you provide. Do not cover up a problem with lies. A lie that one will bear another lie. Once you are caught lying, it is difficult to re-gain confidence.
6. Facing Crisis and Issues.
Laughing and smiling, it's the best way in dealing with each problem. Clear his mind, do not be frantic and to make you stressed. When you smell the aroma of boredom, change your habits and routines are boring. Surprise him with a small gift, give extra attention once in a while is okay. Go somewhere fun and do new things, can reinvigorate the relationship begins to wilt. What if you smell the third person? Keep calm, show them you are the right person for him. Talk back to your relationship goals and plan ahead. He passed the original commitment to be faithful to each other. Do not accuse him directly that he is cheating or trying to cheat.
7. Give a Second Chance.
Do not be stingy to give a second chance, just make sure it's really the last ultimatum that you provide. If you are too tolerant of mistakes that he made, you will be mocked. People make mistakes. People of good will realize his mistake and are working hard to fix. Unlike the fools, they'll keep repeating it and play a thousand words to seduce you. Faced with such people, 'kick' it away. Strong relationships must be able to get through various challenges and trials. How to deal with it is to forgive your partner if err and make mistakes, fix them together and try to chance the two are hopefully better.
8. SEX, SEX AND SEX.
Good sex is good relationship, hmm ... might as well. When starting a relationship try to not involve sex. Although you want to do, hold on. Sex is the main attraction in a relationship. If you are too mengobralnya at the beginning of the relationship, that attraction will disappear spontaneously. Do not be too easy. Make her believe that you will only do it with him and it will be done when your relationship is certain and that is deep in a bond perkawinana. Not just for fun.
if the relationship foundered, remember you still have thousands and thousands of opportunities to get better than him
